Happy New Year all!
I’m still in love with my guy. 2015 was a wonderful, fulfilling and positive year, as I had hoped. He did not disappoint me at all. In fact he excited, surprised, pleased and made me fall in love with him over again. Ah life is GOOOOD!
2016 looks set to be another positive year as we’ve grown even closer and surprised each other with our happiness, I didn’t even realise you could be this happy and content. I will stop gushing…but not yet!
Is there a point to this post other than to share my good joy and happiness? Yes! It is to share my good joy and happiness so that those of you out there who are still single and looking for love in 2016 shall not give up!
Do not give up! Love is coming for you. Love is on the way and it is waiting for you to receive it. Keep your heart, mind and eyes open and your soul ready. Love will not come in the package you expect and it will most definitely hit you when you least expect it. Do not get caught up on someone’s race or age, as long as they are mentally, spiritually and financially stable, treat you really good, and the bedroom stays hot then you better go and get your life! My guy is not my usual type but damn he is blasting all of what I thought I wanted out of the window!!!
Love cannot be planned or put off, it cannot be controlled or summoned it will happen when it happens. The only thing that you can do right now is prepare yourself for it, be ready to receive it, and be open to let love in. I did so dating, crying, wondering, praying and emotional work when I was looking for a partner. When he appeared I was wide open spiritually that I just let him in as a friend and the rest all played out as if I was in a dream.
Work on your blocks to love, because believe me they exist and they are getting in your way. Work on your repetitive noise in your head, that little voice that is always judging you and everyone else before anything amazing can even take place. Work on yourself, building your self confidence and enjoying life as it is today; there are so many that didn’t make it to 2016 so thank God you’re here to see another day.
This is just advice as these are things I had to do and am still doing to enable love to come into my life and stay in my life. Now that I have been successful in finding a relationship I have realised that there is a whole different set of problems and issues I must work on. Finding a partner was never going to be the end of my story, just the end of the ‘being single and dating’ chapter. Now my relationship chapter is under way and I am learning new things about myself everyday.
I shall be posting more this year and sharing help, advice and uplifting stories to whomever wishes to read.